Progression of me

from eighty four to now…

Changes

on December 16, 2012

“People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.  When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.  They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.  They may seem like a godsend, and they are.  They are there for the reason you need them to be.  Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die.  Sometimes they walk away.  Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled;  their work is done.  The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.  They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.  They may teach you something you have never done.  They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.  Believe it!  It is real!  But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.  Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);  and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.  It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.”

I remember when I first read this – via an email years ago.  I’m not sure who the author is but it really stuck with me and made me think about the relationships in my life.  It still doesn’t always help me to work out why a friendship may have come to an end though…

This year a few friendships have ended for me.  All of a sudden – out of the blue.  They are over.  It gets me thinking what I may have learnt from the relationship…but I still feel like I could have learnt more from them, and I wonder why they ended?  Was it me?  Was it them?  Will someone else come to replace them in my life…

Today a friendship of almost 10 years came to an end.  I am rather devastated as I am not sure what I did wrong.  It ended with an argument and some hurtful things were said.  There was no explanation – or if there was I could not work it out.  But it feels like it was due to me, and the path I am currently taking to become the best version of myself I can be.

To me, a true friend is someone who supports you through everything..someone you can totally be yourself around who would never judge you.  Today I felt judged.  For being who I am and who I want to become.

This year I have realised who my true friends are – and I thank them for being who they are, and for loving me for who I am 🙂  I hope that they can say the same of me…

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